The Baggage of Being Marriage Material

Dear Aly

The Baggage of Being Marriage Material

I'm a man who wants a serious commitment. Why does everyone think I'm either lying or crazy?

Miss May 2006 Alison Waite wants to help you. Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, she’ll answer your sex, relationship and dating questions right here on In this installment, she responds to a Playboy fan who vows that he wants children and a serious commitment—a desire that both the men and women in his life take as either a lie or evidence that he's crazy. And so, he asks, "Why can't they understand that's how I really feel?"

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